Support for divorced fathers is thin on the ground in most countries. The reasons behind this are varied and complex and there is a variety of support that fathers who are now divorced form their wives need to help them cope and to help their children cope with it all too.
Financial - I will not get too far into an argument about the law, child support and so forth. All I have to say is that the vast majority of divorced fathers are not deadbeat dads. They care for their kids as best as they can and it can still hurt financially to their own lives and to what they can help their children with as well.
Emotional - Dealing with feelings of being a terrible father, coping with the emotional impact of losing your wife who was your emotional support and then having to reinvent yourself through all of this is a terrible burden for men after divorce. Support to deal with all these emotional troubles can be difficult for a man to ask for or seek out.
Fatherhood - How to be a good dad now that life has changed so much is a major concern for divorced men. What you knew and probably how you viewed being a good father is now changed forever. Shifting into this new role and feeling good about it requires some help
There are a few men's groups that are now starting to appear in many countries in response for this desperate need to connect and reinvent but they are still not used enough by men fearful of being labeled as weak.
As such sometimes the first steps you must take are to find a measure of peace in yourself first. Being a man, confident in who he is and what makes him happy will aid you in becoming a good father as well.
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