Showing posts with label Happens. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Happens. Show all posts

Thursday, December 16, 2010

What Happens to Your Mind After a Break Up and Why You Should Be Excited!

When someone breaks up with you a few things happen:

1. You feel rejected and we automatically want more of what we cannot have, so even if before you didn't really have feelings for the other person when someone rejects you or leaves you we automatically view them as more valuable and more attractive.

2. You automatically find it hard to believe that there is anyone else out there that you can even compare them too. You are basically worried or find difficult to believe that you'll find someone out there that you can feel the same way about. This also makes things worse by causing you to see them as even more valuable.

There is always some one that will make you feel the same way and better I promise! You have to realize this and keep your head up!

Know that it's a learning process and things didn't work out because you were meant to learn something from this! So reflect, take a little time to see what happened, learn and immediately take that person out of your thoughts and move on!

Easier said than done I know, but know that you're changing and growing daily and they are not! In a few weeks you'll have already evolved and know that what happen was definitely for the best and that they were not good for you so smile! Keep your head up and be excited about who's in store for you next! Remember it is all practice!

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Friday, November 19, 2010

What Usually Happens After Divorce

Divorce is briefly defined as the end of a marital union. When couples are divorced, their legal duties and responsibilities towards each other ends. When a person is divorced, that person is allowed to remarry as they wish.


Because of the stress and complications happening during the divorce process, people involved in it are usually placed in a very vulnerable state. They tend to remarry to other people because it's the most convenient thing to do. Statistics say most marriages that happen after the divorce are meant to fail. This is primarily because some individuals marry another person while in the transition or during the rebound.


Remarriage can be compared to another marriage only this time it is the second time around. Two people who share plenty of hopes, love and sex to build up another life together. You may even consider it as a usual marriage, because you know that somebody will be sleeping beside you, the kitchen will be busy again. But you cannot still hide the fact that this is already the second time you've done this.


It is very important that before you set off marrying somebody else, you make an assessment on the previous relationship - what went wrong and the issues that you've encountered. When you enter into another marriage, make sure that you are dedicated to make the relationship work.


It's not impossible to make remarriage a success, but it needs a lot of effort to make it work out after divorce. As the saying goes "it's sweeter the second time around."