Sometimes, things don't go the way we want them to. This is especially true in the dating world. There are times wherein a relationship ended even before it had a chance to kick things off. Sadly, sometimes we played a part in its demise. We unconsciously did something that made the guy run the other way. Here are some dating mistakes women make that you should avoid at all cost.
Sleeping with the guy too early. This is perhaps the most common mistake most women unwittingly always make. You may feel really attracted to the guy that you would end up jumping into bed with him. You may not be able to resist the urge to become intimate with him. So, what happens is that you would sleep with the guy after the first or second date.
You may think that he would find it appealing, but guess what? He won't. Just because you're sexually confident about yourself doesn't mean he would like you for that. On the contrary, he would probably think that you are doing this with every guy you date. Don't have sex with a guy too early if you want to keep the relationship longer. This is one of the most important dating tips that you need to follow.
Talking about your previous relationships. All of us have had our fair share of failed relationships. There are some women who still pine for a guy who broke their heart. Others still have resentment over a boyfriend who treated them like trash. Well, that' all in the past. You don't need to bring these emotional baggage to the table.
You have to wipe the slate clean and start fresh every time you date a new guy. Remember, he has nothing to do with what has happened to your past dating life. So, leave all previous relationships out during conversation and when you're in a new relationship. No guy would want to hear you complain or compare him with other men you dated.
Being pessimistic or critical. These two characteristics are something that most people cannot tolerate. Imagine yourself spending dinner or worse, the whole night with someone full or negativity, or being critical. Not only is it exhausting, but also annoying as hell. So, if you don't want the relationship to end abruptly, don't be this kind of person.
Being rude. Well, everyone knows that it's not good manners to be rude. Being ill-mannered, especially to your date, or even to anyone is a huge no-no. Not only is it a turn off, but it's also not a very good impression of you. The guy would think that you lack the education or knowledge to know what good manners are. You don't want that, right?
There you have it. These are just some of the common dating mistakes women make all the time. So, if you really like the guy and want to keep seeing him. Or if you want the relationship to work, then you need to avoid these mistakes as possible.
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